This notion is incorrect, and as such analizing words in
their English meaning takes away the real escense of the
word.
Most words have their origin in the Romantic Languages
(greek, roman).
Gratitude is in English begin thankful.
When people explain that being grateful and feeling
gratitude for things manifested they mean that one should
have a sense of thankfulness.
This is part takes away a big escense of the word and
its meaning.
Gratitude was born in the Romantic Languages, in
Latin, "gratus- Thankful, pleasing" and "gratia- which
means grace"
It is not far fetched to say then that Gratitude
is to be thankful- yes, but it is also to "fall in grace"
of the one who has done something to you, without you
having to have paid for it "gratis- meaning free".
So Gratitude is to fall in grace of the one who
has given you something for nothing.
Falling in grace is a sense of joy, a sense of awe
and recognition.
To not be thankful, is then to fall out of
grace.
As it is said in the book "The Science of Getting
Rich" a lot of people who are doing the right things are
deprived of the things they want because they lack
gratitude.
To fall in grace with your creator, the universe, and
acknowledge the favour being done to you by his infinite
love makes it possible for you to be connected to your
creator in high vibration.
The lack of this recognition disconnects you from this
energy, and puts you back in the place you were.
This is all up to you.
This is why the Law of Gratitude is so important, it is
recognizing that it is someone else who does the creation
for you, it is recognizing that that someone else loves
you, and in return you acknowledge the favor, and pay back
with love.
The entire purpose of the world as we know it (according
to myself) is to fall in love with our creator.
The jewish prayer says "and you will love God your God
with all your heart and all your soul and everything that
you are" and this will bring you blessings (there is a
mention of the material kind)
I want to wish you to fall in grace, and fall in love of
your creator, even though sometimes you think you are
separate from him, or apart from him, know that he is
always in you, you are not different or separate from
him.
Again in "The Science of Getting Rich" this is the
thinking substance that permeates all, and is in between
all, and in the spaces of all.
Quoting Sai Baba "You are God, you are not different
than God, All is God"
Together With Divine Love